Extended Family vs. Immediate Family - By JenniferESL
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00:00 | Hi , I'm jennifer from english with jennifer and I'd | |
00:04 | like to share a lesson to help you learn english | |
00:06 | vocabulary and understand american culture a little better thanksgiving is | |
00:12 | a time when we gather with family sadly my family | |
00:17 | is so spread out that we can't easily gather for | |
00:20 | holidays . My relatives don't just live in different towns | |
00:24 | or even different states . They live in different countries | |
00:28 | thankfully I have some things in my home that makes | |
00:31 | me feel closer to family . For example , I | |
00:36 | have serving dishes from my grandmother like this one and | |
00:41 | this one when I see them and use them . | |
00:45 | I think of all the thanksgiving dinners we had with | |
00:48 | family around the table . My extended family is quite | |
00:52 | large . Mhm Do you know what I mean by | |
00:56 | extended family in this lesson , we'll go beyond basic | |
01:00 | family vocabulary and we'll talk about different branches on your | |
01:04 | family tree . Yeah . Yeah . Mm . When | |
01:14 | you're a kid , your immediate family is your parents | |
01:17 | and your siblings . Some call this the nuclear family | |
01:21 | . I think sometimes the words are interchangeable nuclear family | |
01:25 | immediate family . But what I understand is that the | |
01:28 | nuclear family is under one roof . The household of | |
01:32 | a nuclear family consists of the parents and the Children | |
01:36 | . My concept of immediate family is a bit bigger | |
01:42 | as adults . Many of us get married and have | |
01:45 | Children . You could say that my nuclear family now | |
01:48 | is my husband and our Children . But when I | |
01:51 | think of immediate family , I still include my parents | |
01:55 | and my brothers . Does that make sense ? But | |
01:59 | those relatives are not necessarily considered immediate family for my | |
02:04 | Children . For them , their immediate family is me | |
02:10 | , my husband , their father and each other get | |
02:14 | it . You hear the term immediate family in the | |
02:20 | context of rules and policies . For example , at | |
02:24 | a hospital , a very sick patient would be allowed | |
02:27 | to receive visits only from immediate family and at work | |
02:32 | , you would be allowed to take off a certain | |
02:34 | number of days for a family emergency , That's a | |
02:38 | kind of emergency that concerns immediate family . Not some | |
02:42 | distant cousin , extended family refers to relatives outside the | |
02:49 | nuclear family , grandparents , aunts , uncles , cousins | |
02:55 | , all those more distant branches on your family tree | |
02:58 | are part of your extended family . Did you know | |
03:04 | your great grandparents ? Maybe you're fortunate enough to still | |
03:07 | have them around today ? I knew my great grandmother | |
03:11 | , she was my grandfather's mother and she came to | |
03:15 | the U . S . From hungry . She married | |
03:17 | my great grandfather , who came from Serbia . My | |
03:21 | great grandparents on my grandmother's side were from Poland and | |
03:25 | they didn't live long enough for me to meet them | |
03:28 | . Obviously I didn't have the chance to meet my | |
03:31 | great great grandparents . I met my paternal grandparents , | |
03:35 | my father's parents because they visited us from the Philippines | |
03:39 | when I was a child . Note how we can | |
03:44 | use these phrases to clarify which part of the family | |
03:48 | tree were referring to . On my mother's side , | |
03:53 | on my father's side , my maternal grandparents , my | |
03:58 | paternal grandparents . Now this is where it gets a | |
04:05 | little confusing . Who is the sister of your grandmother | |
04:10 | or grandfather ? That's your great aunt , Some say | |
04:15 | grand aunt , but I don't hear that too much | |
04:18 | . I knew at least two of my great aunt | |
04:21 | on my mother's side , my grandmother's brother needed regular | |
04:26 | care . So he lived with my grandparents who was | |
04:30 | he . To me , he was my great uncle | |
04:34 | and I was his grand niece . My brothers were | |
04:37 | his grand nephews . You will also hear great knees | |
04:41 | and great nephew . Same thing . Just remember that | |
04:45 | we use great to indicate that we're one generation removed | |
04:49 | from that person . We add on another great for | |
04:53 | each generation . Can you name your great great grandparents | |
05:01 | ? Do you know how I called my relatives and | |
05:03 | childhood forms of address vary from family to family , | |
05:07 | especially in intercultural marriages . I called my grandparents on | |
05:12 | my mother's side , grandma and grandpa up . I | |
05:15 | called my grandparents on my father's side , Lola and | |
05:19 | Lolo . My great uncle was uncle Jim , my | |
05:23 | great aunt was and Kasia . And note how I | |
05:26 | said aunt in american english , you can say aunt | |
05:31 | or aunt . I just happened to say aunt , | |
05:34 | my aunt Kasia , my Children call my husband's mother | |
05:39 | babushka . Their grandmother is in Russia . What do | |
05:45 | you call your grandparents ? How do you address aunts | |
05:48 | and uncles ? My father immigrated from the Philippines so | |
05:54 | I didn't get to know his side of the family | |
05:56 | to , well I did get the chance to meet | |
05:59 | most of his sisters . They were and are my | |
06:02 | aunts on my mother's side . I didn't have any | |
06:06 | answer uncles because she was an only child . But | |
06:12 | my grandmother came from a very large family and her | |
06:16 | siblings had Children . So my mother and I had | |
06:19 | lots of cousins growing up . A first cousin is | |
06:25 | the child of an aunt or an uncle . 2nd | |
06:28 | cousins share great grandparents . Think about that for a | |
06:33 | moment . My grandmother had one child , my mother | |
06:39 | , my grandmother's sister , my aunt , Kasia also | |
06:43 | had Children . Those Children were first cousins to my | |
06:47 | mother , their Children and I share a set of | |
06:51 | great grandparents . So we're second cousins , at least | |
06:55 | that's how I understand it when it gets really confusing | |
06:59 | , which is called people cousins . I have a | |
07:02 | lot of cousins back in pennsylvania , my home state | |
07:07 | . You can get into third cousins when you start | |
07:10 | talking about Children of second cousins . But if it | |
07:13 | gets too confusing than just call people cousins or simply | |
07:17 | family , you can call relatives family , you're related | |
07:24 | . They're part of your extended family . When we | |
07:29 | can't remember exactly how we're related , we sometimes refer | |
07:32 | to someone as a distant cousin . You know that | |
07:35 | you're related by blood , sometimes you'll hear once removed | |
07:42 | or twice removed . This refers to how far apart | |
07:45 | you are in generations . My mother's first cousin and | |
07:51 | I became quite close . She is my first cousin | |
07:54 | . Once removed . For my Children , she is | |
07:57 | their first cousin . Twice removed . They simply think | |
08:00 | of her as a cousin . It's simpler that way | |
08:06 | . Let's not forget about in laws . When you | |
08:09 | get married , you marry into another family . My | |
08:13 | husband's parents are my in laws . My mother in | |
08:16 | law and father in law were able to attend our | |
08:19 | wedding because we got married in Russia . My husband | |
08:23 | has a sister . She is my sister in law | |
08:26 | , and my brothers became my husband's brothers in law | |
08:32 | . Note these plural forms mothers in law , fathers | |
08:37 | in law , sisters in law , brothers in law | |
08:45 | . But to talk about the mother and father of | |
08:47 | your spouse , you can simply say in laws , | |
08:51 | for example , we're spending thanksgiving with my in laws | |
08:56 | or my in laws are visiting this weekend In modern | |
09:02 | society . We have different kinds of families . 2nd | |
09:05 | and third marriages are fairly common . So we have | |
09:09 | blended families . That's when two families become one , | |
09:13 | a couple gets married and they bring with them Children | |
09:17 | from a previous marriage . The ex husband or ex | |
09:22 | wife are no longer immediate family to the person who | |
09:26 | got remarried in a blended family or in a second | |
09:31 | marriage . We can talk about step parents and step | |
09:34 | Children , stepmother , stepfather , stepsister , stepbrother . | |
09:42 | When you think about parents and siblings and cousins of | |
09:46 | a stepmother or stepfather , it gets a little confusing | |
09:50 | . You can explain that someone isn't a blood relation | |
09:53 | there not a blood relative , but they're still family | |
09:57 | . You can be related by birth or by marriage | |
10:03 | . The funny thing is that we can be very | |
10:05 | close to someone who isn't a blood relative , but | |
10:09 | they're like family . We say she's like a sister | |
10:12 | to me . I consider him family . Here are | |
10:18 | a couple more words . You need to know . | |
10:20 | What do we call to Children who share only one | |
10:24 | parent . They're half brothers and half sisters . For | |
10:32 | fun and for practice , talk about your family . | |
10:35 | See how many people you can name on your family | |
10:38 | tree . Use vocabulary from this lesson . Here's a | |
10:44 | quick quiz You can answer in the comments , Who | |
10:49 | is your mother's new husband ? Who is your grandmother's | |
10:56 | brother ? Who is your aunt's son ? Who is | |
11:05 | your wife's sister ? Who is the son of your | |
11:12 | father and stepmother ? Who was your great uncle's granddaughter | |
11:21 | ? Mm . Mhm . What's a blended family ? | |
11:29 | Yeah . Name . two different ways . People can | |
11:33 | be related . That's all for now . I hope | |
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